Here’s a question we can all ponder as we approach the Oscars: Should Hollywood do the right thing and stand up for gay civil rights by honoring “Milk” with Best Picture? Should it stick only to the best movie as they judge it, regardless of the political fallout? Is it Hollywood’s job to advocate anything of that kind? I’ve given my view on the matter. It should be a lively topic for debate at this weekend’s free Oscar event at the Nickelodeon.